Thursday, November 27, 2014

Thanksgiving

Oh, the wonderful smells of the kitchen around the holidays.. As a child, we didn't know much  or pay much attention to the festive days but we knew it was a time for good food and fun with our cousins.  

Those smells take me back in remembering when daddy would have the turkey or ham, depending on which he was to cook for the day and of course his dressing. That cornbread dressing was so good but of course he and my grandmother would make one as sort of a competition to see whose would be eaten first. The chicken stewing for the dressing as well as the extra parts for the giblet gravy(not my favorite) and of course the smell of the sage and allspice in the cornbread, marrying together before putting in the oven. My dad would make his famous potato salad and my grandmother would make her fruit salad ( I liked mine with the marshmallow creme instead of the mayo).  All the vegetables would be cooked to superb taste which meant with seasoning and lard or at times with butter. The rolls were hot and buttered and would slide right down the ole gullet. The tea was sweet and all those pies and candies that were made from scratch; pecan pie, chocolate pie and martha washington's and let's not forget my dad's strawberry cake.   

Can you imagine all the food?  We ate until we could not see straight or sit straight.  

Before and after dinner/lunch, we kids would be outside playing football or riding on the little minibikes or sitting around in another room talking about things that girls talk about, boys.. 

I loved those days when a gathering would be fun, cause face it......as we get older and we are doing the cooking........it's not so much fun.. :)   Bless those before us, now one can understand the wine or a glass of sumptin sumptin ....... that keeps the smile on the face and the stress of getting it done to a minimal.   

So, as I close this blog today because I have the dressing calling me and the green bean casserole to put in next, I wish all of you a very Happy Thanksgiving.  We are blessed each day---- it's a wonderful life.   Be safe and keep those less fortunate in our prayers. 


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Monday, November 10, 2014

To all those Unanswered Questions

"Unanswered Questions"

You know when you think you have figured it out and then "wham" it hits you with another twist and turn? Things you thought you knew turns out could/could not be.  


Sometimes IT can be true and kept from you/us for unknown reasons and other times, it can very well be "unanswered questions" playing around with your/our  mind.  You/we are the pawn from which those tricks are played.  Or maybe we become gullible to those "unanswered questions" and we take on a perception of the truth/lie that we and we only can hold on to? And when I say hold on to, I mean holding on can either make us or break us. 

Sometimes, those "unanswered questions" can drive us deep inside to do or think unimaginable things. To find a lost love or to seek the truth that only one person can give you/us, but again;they too are lost. Where is that answer? What is true/false? You/we have your/our conversations with them and you know deep inside what felt true and then one day--- gone--- whether in death or by their own means or someone else's --- move away and so forth... losing contact with that special friend/person and hearing things afterward that you/one can hardly believe. But, what is true or a lie? If in death that person can never answer  and it's just as hard trying to find those that are lost; either by their hands or another's and seek those "unanswered questions".  Some love to play games with others and some are just caught up in the moment with no ill will at all..  

Sometimes, is it best to just let it go or to seek out that truth/lie? Do you believe your heart or your head? Everyone deserves their "answers" but if that other is not there and those that might know will not come forth.... all you/we have are the memories of conversations that were true to you/us and sometimes that is all that matters (to get us through the day); until one day those "unanswered questions" will simply be a faded memory.  

Thanks----