Having it all??

I was in a discussion the other day about having it all.  

Not that we possibly can't have everything we want/need. At times, this may be true but in other times, I feel/ask, "how?"

Something has got to give or left out. I mean-- look--- having money a nice car/home, clothes, trips are all notable but most that have these things are not all happy in every single aspect of their lives.   If you have a great career-most of the time the family might suffer. Can you see where I am going with all of this?

There is nothing wrong with trying to have it all and how wonderful it would/could be to have an equal balance. 


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Stop and smell the Roses

I remember as a child with my grandmother and her telling me to stop and smell the roses.  My reply would be "why do i want to smell flowers?"  as to which she would say "because" "one day you will know and understand." "Life is way to short" she would say and I would reply that i am not even 20 yet and have much more life to live. Silly girl, right? I believe all young ones think they can live forever and nothing can harm them. 

As i get older I am beginning to understand what she meant by that statement. "  but it can mean something different to another.  For me this means just stop and take the time to enjoy God's creation. Stop listen to the birds and hear them sing to the Heavens. Stop and look at that rose or other flower and see the beauty of it's unique form; how each or most have their own scent. Stop and look at that tree to see it's stature and strength knowing it's been here to see our ancestors as they passed by when it was young. Take time to see the sky how beautiful that blue sky is and how grateful we should be and are to be chosen to enjoy these amazing things that have been set before us. 

My grandmother, mother and great grandmother was correct in saying life is too short not to stop and enjoy the little things. We get boggled down by every day life and forget that things that cost us nothing to enjoy are being wasted. When was the last time you went out and sat under the sun? Went for a walk with your friend/family? Listened to your favorite song and just danced? Go and dance in the rain or walk in the rain. (not during lightning.)

Take time to enjoy nature and all it gives, it's a blessing because one day, we will ask where did life go?  Take out a moment in your day to "STOP AND SMELL THE ROSES".

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"HOT BUTTERED ROLLS"

Hot buttered Rolls/Cornbread..

As many of you from Tupelo will notice this saying was quite popular in the 80's.  

It was a popular restaurant, Mrs. Delbe's.. we had home cooking as and threw hot buttered rolls and cornbread as some would call the little entertainment..... If anyone remembers those good ole rolls--- melt in your mouth, hot buttered and huge. MMM MMMM so good. 

As anyone that knows me, I am not a great pitcher. I can't draw a straight line with a ruler nor can I throw straight,either. Well, one day, I was elected to do this deed for our customers and reluctantly I did as was asked. Went into the kitchen grabbed the basket, put on my little gloves and waited until they were removed from the oven and hot melted butter slathered all over the top. I picked them up carefully, they were slippery with all that butter, and placed them in the basket. As I came to the door of the kitchen.. I started yelling, "HOT BUTTER ROLLS!" "WHO WANTS A HOT BUTTER ROLL?"  Hands go up to those that have been there before and the one for their first trip into our place only looked in surprise until I came near and said "IF YOU WANT A ROLL YOU GOTTA HOLD YOUR HANDS OUT, NO HANDING HERE, YOU HAVE TO CATCH IT".... this was great fun and the people enjoyed the entertainment of it all.   laughing and screeching as the rolls were tossed across the room in hopes they were caught by the ones that wanted one. :)  

I had a couple of men sitting around the middle of the room that was watching the fun and seeing who would catch one and who would not.. as they were watching and laughing; trying to decide if they were going to hold their hand up..  someone sitting behind them threw up their hands and I said "OKAY, READY?  CATCH!".. I threw back my arm as if I were "not" Babe Ruth and as I was coming back into form, I let it go and off it went... as I was watching.....there it goes into the wild blue yonder ... slid right across a bald man's head and right into the hands of the one that wanted the hot melted delight.........  yep, little low and off kilter..it went in great form like a slow/fast ball heading over home plate. Trying to compose myself after his friend stated, "you got it right over the noggin", "give me one."  At that moment, laughter was ensued by all and then everyone wanted a roll. "HERE, HERE" and throw I did.

It was a good toss off a roll for a new patron, even though when he came in he would ask if I were throwing the rolls he would go out and get his hat..  

I never will forget that time with Mrs, Delbe's and those "HOT BUTTERED ROLLS/CORNBREAD"  "WHO WANTS A HOT BUTTERED ROLL?"  

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Can we save ourselves?

Of all that is going on with our Country and the World today. How will we save humanity? Can there be peace? Will opposition stand against politics for the greater good?

There is much evil in this world today, but face it always has been. This day in age, it's become more holding on our lives (public and private). We have no accountability for anything. Evil seems to reign. 

Doesn't matter what faith or religion you are- what political spectrum you side- what color you are or male/female... As a human being one should have compassion for another. 

One should never- EVER-- I repeat-- NEVER EVER be condemned because of their religious beliefs/faith. Yet, Christians are attacked. Seems to have no voice, no recourse, no partner, no refuge because we believe in something much higher than ourselves the HOPE and FAITH that one day will come... 

There can never be peace or a move toward it if those that do evil or oppose shut down compromise. No, not everyone can win but we can live and respect the differences in another. If we as people do NOT take a stand, we are lost as humanity.. allowing those to be persecuted on their faith. It can take one to change the course of time.. Take a stand, stand together and make a difference.(whether it be politics, religion/faith or basic human rights of others)....  Ask yourselves... if we don't make our mark and stand.. what if one day; we can't walk down our streets and speak out or our women being stoned because someone says that she is in violation of the rule of law they set forth or watch as people storm our houses and work to kill our children/families... ??? Sad but true on how some of this world lives, but standing up and giving help .. how would that little child or woman feel to walk down the street safe and sound? being able to have the most basic thing in life... freedom??  to go to school and learn?? What a wonderful gift that would be for those that have only known oppression... 

Can opposition stand without politics??  Yes, no question it can. but today, especially in our Country.. it stands as NO.. we have lawlessness, illegal activity in our government and no accountability because it oppresses those that speak out---like a monarch with taxes, punishment and unfounded laws... Politics has taken over and that should never be. We have a chance to work together for the good of the people and our country. It's time for a change for the better. Keep us safe, our friends in other countries to know that we will be there for them(no, we can't be there and police but we can support and be there when needed) Time to take away their power, those that want to harm us and make us weak. I for one am fed up with the corruptness going on and we need to all decide whether our Nation is worth the sacrifice our forefathers and those after have paid... We are a nation of laws and we have the responsibility to make sure our rule of law is set forth by our governing body, they work for us not us for them... These days, politics only serves their agenda(s) not the people they serve. 

Remember that evil can appear as good and feed us to want to follow.. Evil only serves itself... Destroys..  

Time to make our stand and make us a better place and a better people.. whether domestic or world.. We can not lose our Humanity.. 

Thank you... 

Blue Suede ---- Movie

A big shout out to a new movie coming out soon and to my new friend, J.R. Hepburn (Director).Blue Suede is a crime thriller. If you like martial arts, gang wars and mobsters; you will love this movie.. 

The story is set in the underworld of Boston and revolves around a bloody turf war between the Chinese Triads and the Italian Mob. Now, this is a great story line. Who thought of putting these two at odds with one another? Already, I am intrigued. And in the midst of all the bloodshed, Federal Agents try to stop the violence and bring down organized crime in China Town. Now, who wins this turf war is anyone's guess.

This movie will keep you on the edge of your seat and will be one "kick ass" action thriller. Blue Suede is a Vendetta Motion Picture by J.R. Hepburn known for such movies as Killing Khan and Hidden in the Woods. A great cast of actors makes this movie one to see. Some you have heard before and others you will be hearing more from in the future with other projects. A few listed are; Cynthia Rothrock a legendary actress known for her martial arts in such movies as Above the Law. Also, you have such great actors as Robert Miano, Scott Adkins, John Fiore- one of my favorite, loved him on Law and Order. 

Make a date to mark your calendars. This is a must see. You will not be disappointed. 


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Bobbie's Takes: The South

Bobbie's Takes: The South: There is something to say about coming or being from the South. Where every season could be an excuse for a family reunion. When I say fami...

The South

There is something to say about coming or being from the South. Where every season could be an excuse for a family reunion. When I say family reunion- I mean- even family you have not even met. 

The South is long rides from one place to another or just no particular place. The South is filled with stories of long ago or old wive's tales or just folklore.  Our language is different; we say y'all or fixin' along with other colorful words.  

In the South, it gets, at times, in the Summer, way to hot and humid to even breath and even a grand ole oak tree is not enough to keep the sweat beads at bay.  Those days, you pray for a nice little breeze. 

The South has great food. Most everything good is fried- fried okra (which most of us say okry), fried green tomatoes and deep fried breaded chicken.. now them some good eats.. :)  We love turnip greens and collard greens, potato salad, catfish, salted ham and red eye gravy along with homemade butter biscuits with molasses or honey  and not to mention our stock from the gardens. I remember helping in the canning process when I was young.. long and hard work but when we opened those cans, oh my goodness, the hard work was tasty.  

I love the South where the breeding has deep roots and the culture is old. The music is soulful- the birth of Jazz and the King of Rock N Roll.  

All that is good with the South, we have our demons or skeletons .. those we wish to forget but remember so that we never walk that road again... Civil Rights and KKK... 

The South, my South, is my home--- I love.. 

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